jac vanek

"I had a lot of dates but I decided to stay home and dye my eyebrows."

I was going to make an update post about what’s going on in my life, but I wanted to take a minute to address some of the things being said on certain “gossip” sites about me first.  I find it absolutely ludicrous, and at times insanely humorous, how 90% of the “information” on these sites are COMPLETE FABRICATIONS with absolutely no substantial backbone whatsoever.  I never understood the reason why some people find it necessary to make up lies to put others down with (or wait, you DID hear it from a friend of a friend of an uncle’s housekeeper’s blind and deaf pet rat, right?  So it MUST be true!).

The main thing I would like to point out is how some people think it is absolutely IMPOSSIBLE for a female to be friends with a male without sucking his dick.  I don’t know how you live your life, but I live a life full of self-respect and a quiet self-confidence, where I have never found it necessary to hook up with boys to get attention.  I know it’s SO hard to believe, but I actually use my (GASP) personality and (GASP) intelligence to form strong friendships with others, whether it be with a male or female.

Honestly, the double standard that is ever so prevalent in this “scene” is depressing and completely unfair, but to me, it IS understandable.  Most girls are treated like pieces of meat (and this is because most girls ALLOW themselves to be just pieces of meat, nothing more).  Sad, but true.  But I do know there are solid girls out there who won’t allow themselves to be treated less than they are worth, and who won’t put up with anyone’s bullshit.  And this is precisely the reason I felt it was necessary to voice my opinion on this matter.

Anyway, here are a few TRUE FACTS about me :

  1. I am still a virgin.  I find this kind of annoying that I have to use this fact as a defense, because my sex life is honestly no one else’s business except my own, but whatever.  You can ask ANY of my friends about that one, and you’ll always get the same answer.
  2. I just graduated from UCLA with a Regents Scholarship.  No, I never dropped out.  In fact, I am graduating early for my class.
  3. I am a self employed / entrepreneur / business owner.  I am slowly building an entire company that started out with absolutely nothing.  Just because you haven’t seen it yet, doesn’t mean it’s not there.  I support myself entirely on my own, and I am working extremely hard to create a career and life style doing something I absolutely adore.

So, go read those rumors again, and I’m pretty sure these three simple facts will render practically everything useless.

In conclusion, instead of believing what the “all knowing” INT3RN3TZ says about me, please come find me this summer at Warped and lets have a conversation before you make false assumptions about my character.

xx

jv

PS : I think I am going to make a “FML” shirt.  Would you wear it????  Also, give me your suggestions for new bracelets!  The top running in my mind are WINGMAN, DENIED, JAILBAIT / LEGAL, SHAMELESS.  Give me ideas!

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